Dear GodDaughter!!!
As days pass by I just go on getting confirmations from the Universe that you are the chosen one. Look at the timing of the article from my favorite author.
The Whole Universe Always ..... ALWAYS is working for My GodDaughter!!!. Go through the article at leisure.
But one thing always be sure of, that there is no single experience that HE gives us which we do not deserve. He wants us to be our best and which I am sure you are and HE wants to test that HIS people are in capable hands. I am sure there would always be ups and downs in life. Not all days would be sunny. There would be a few dull days. Days when we will get hit by the reality of life. Days when we will feel why does it always happen to us. It is upto us if we want to accept all this with utter disappointment or reluctance. Or with energy and statement – Bring it On. I am ready. And I know my GodDaughter is Always Ready. My God Daughter is the chosen one.
And as you always know, your Uncle A WAS, IS and Will Always be with you to sound it off to. To get your anger out on. To be your Punching Bag. To discuss whatever topic under the Sun you want to talk about. I know that I do not give you solutions. But I guess as you speak out, it takes the frustration out. And then you are free and de-cluttered to brood over it with a slightly unbiased view. A view to look at it a little independently. My only intention is to ensure that you take a note of the happening, acknowledge it, take out the anger / frustration and then say OK. OK OK. I have acknowledged your presence, I have taken note of it and choose to be OK with it. I will think of ways to get over it when I am de-cluttered. At the moment I have taken a note of it and choose not to lose my inner peace.
See again I ended up putting a lot of my Blah Blah instead of sending the article. I stop here and here you go...
Befriending Feelings
The only problem with sadness, desperateness, anger, hopelessness, anxiety, anguish, misery, is that you want to get rid of them. That’s the only barrier.
You will have to live with them. You cannot just escape. They are the very situation in which life has to integrate and grow. They are the challenges of life. Accept them. They are blessings in disguise. If you want to escape from them, if you somehow want to get rid of them, then the problem arises – because if you want to get rid of something, you never look at it directly. And then the thing starts hiding from you because you are condemnatory; then the thing goes on moving deeper into the unconscious, hides in the darkest corner of your being where you cannot find it. It moves into the basement of your being and hides there. And of course the deeper it goes, the more trouble it creates – because then it starts functioning from unknown corners of your being and you are completely helpless.
So the first thing is: never repress. The first thing is: whatsoever is the case is the case. Accept it and let it come – let it come in front of you. In fact just to say “do not repress” is not enough. If you allow me, I would like to say, “Befriend it.”
You are feeling sad? Befriend it, have compassion for it. Sadness also has a being. Allow it, embrace it, sit with it, hold hands with it. Be friendly. Be in love with it. Sadness is beautiful! Nothing is wrong with it. Who told you that something is wrong in being sad? In fact only sadness gives you depth. Laughter is shallow; happiness is skin-deep. Sadness goes to the very bones, to the marrow. Nothing goes as deep as sadness.
So don’t be worried. Remain with it and sadness will take you to your innermost core. You can ride on it and you will be able to know a few new things about your being that you had never known before. Those things can be revealed only in a sad state, they can never be revealed in a happy state. Darkness is also good and darkness is also divine. The day is not only existence’s, the night is also. I call this attitude religious....
A person who can be patiently sad will suddenly find that one morning a happiness is arising in his heart from some unknown source. That unknown source is godliness. You have earned it if you have been truly sad; if you have been truly hopeless, desperate, unhappy, miserable, if you have lived in hell, you have earned heaven. You have paid the cost....
Confront life. Encounter life. Difficult moments will be there, but one day you will see that those difficult moments gave you strength because you encountered them. They were meant to be. Those difficult moments are hard when you are passing through them, but later on you will see they have made you more integrated. Without them you would never have been centered, grounded.
The old religions all over the world have been repressive; the new religion of the future is going to be expressive. And I teach that new religion…let expression be one of the most fundamental rules of your life. Even if you have to suffer for it, suffer. You will never be a loser. That suffering will make you more and more capable of enjoying life, of rejoicing in life.
Wishing you the Most and More ....ALWAYS.
May GOD bless you and bring a lot of Love Peace and Happiness to you. May you ALWAYS get what you strive for and May HE guide you to your greatness. Your Goal Your Aim. I am sure you will reach it. All the Best GodDaughter!!!
Your and Always Yours,
Your Loving Uncle A.
